Oblique strategies: “Balance the consistency principle with the inconsistency principle”.
Confirmation: Longing for something that is unclear.
Tube: I have been waiting for you
Me: -
Tube: I didn't know if you just left me
Me: I will never leave you without saying goodby
Tube: I felt really lonely
Me: yea…well…I had to do other stuff…
Tube: I am not sure that you will use me as I want to
Me: me neither…
Tube: I will tell you along the way..
Me: I feel like imploding
Tube: why
Me: I missed you so much
Tube: we figure it out, you just have to follow
Me: yea…
1. The right decision
Oblique strategies: “You are an engineer”.
Confirmation: Protection is not needed.
Object: You made me
Me: yes I know
Object: did you like it
Me: in a way, yes
Object: what will happen to me
Me: not so mutch, you will just be a construction for other things
Object: I don't understand
Me: I will just use you
Object It feels strange, I feel exposed, a little bit naked almost
Me: don't worry, I will put some tubes around you
Object: to protect me?
Me: not really…..no, or maybe…do you need protection?
Object: I don't think so.